Niaj hnub no nws tsis yooj yim kom tsis txhob noj ntau dhau, vim tias zaub mov tau dhau los ua ib txoj hauv kev tseem ceeb kom muaj kev lom zem. Peb mus qhov twg nrog cov phooj ywg? Noj sushi. Peb mus ua si rau hnub so twg nrog tsev neeg? Mus tom khw ces muab ib qho burgers. Peb siv peb lub sijhawm dawb li cas tom tsev? Hauv TV nrog khoom qab zib. Yuav ua li cas thiab nyob li cas? Peb xav txog nws.
Kev rog dhau hnub no yog ib qho tseem ceeb ua kom muaj rog. Ntawm qhov tod tes, tsis muaj leej twg yuam peb noj me ntsis, tsis hais lus thiab tsis qab, tab sis cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb hauv qab no yuav tsum nco ntsoov:
1. Khoom noj khoom haus yog cov khoom zoo tib yam li cov khoom seem, yog li ntawd, cov neeg tsim khoom sim muag peb cov khoom no ntau li ntau tau. Ua ntej ua ib qho kev yuav khoom, xav txog vim li cas koj yuav tsum yuav nws? Vim tias nws yog kev hnav khaub ncaws, muaj txiaj ntsig zoo, ntxim nyiam, los yog nws yeej tsim nyog? Tsis txhob poob rau qhov kev ntxias ntawm kev tshaj tawm - txhua yam kev tshaj tawm, nyiaj tshwj xeeb tsuas yog ua rau kom tau txais txiaj ntsig zoo xwb. Nco ntsoov, qhov koj yuav ntau, koj yuav tsum tau noj ntau. Yuav khoom yam uas koj xav tau xwb.
2. Ntawm qhov tshwm sim ntawm pej xeem kev noj haus lossis tom tsev, tsis muaj leej twg yuam koj kom ua tiav txhua yam uas nyob hauv lub phaj. Yog tias koj xav tias tag nrho, nres, tsis tiav.
3. Hauv tsev, hloov koj daim hlau xwm txheej nrog me me. Cov ntu ntawm lawv saib loj, yog li ntawd, txoj kev xav yuav yooj yim rau koj kom nkag siab tias koj muaj txhij.
4. Tom qab muab cov zaub mov tso rau hauv lub phaj, muab cov khoom seem uas seem cia rau hauv tub yees. Qhov no txo cov kev pheej hmoo ntawm kev haus cov khoom noj ntxiv.
5. Tshem tawm cov khoom qab zib, ncuav qab zib, ncuav qab zib los ntawm kev pub dawb. Muab ib lub txiv tso tso rau saum rooj.
6. Tsis txhob noj txhua zaus koj muaj sijhawm. Thawj zaug nug koj tus kheej - Kuv puas tshaib plab?
7. Tsis txhob zaum rau ntawm cov khoom noj muaj zog. Tus neeg tshaib plab tsoo yooj yim dua, yooj yim, tsis hnov nws lub sij hawm. Kev noj haus yuav tsum muaj ntau yam, noj nrog zoo siab, tab sis hauv feem me me.
8. Pom ntau yam haujlwm ntxiv uas tsis haum nrog zaub mov. Haujlwm yam koj nyiam, kev nrhiav tau ntawm kev tshwj xeeb ntxiv, kev ua kis las - txhua yam yog qhov haum uas muaj txiaj ntsig rau txoj kev txhim kho ib tus neeg, nqa raws
Khoom noj khoom haus tau maj mam dhau los ua qhov chaw ntawm lub qab ntuj rau txhua tus neeg thiab qee yam xav tau ceev kom ua los tshem tawm qhov ntawd!
